Questions to Ask a Queer-Affirming Therapist
You are absolutely allowed to ask questions before committing to therapy. In fact, it’s one of the best ways to ensure a good
fit.
Here are some important questions to consider:
1. What experience do you have working with LGBTQ clients?
This helps you understand whether the therapist has relevant experience and familiarity with LGBTQ-specific concerns.
2. How do you approach LGBTQ-related topics in therapy?
A good therapist will explain how they create an affirming environment and integrate identity into the therapeutic process
when relevant.
3. What is your perspective on sexual orientation and gender identity?
You’re looking for an answer that reflects acceptance, respect, and understanding—not neutrality or discomfort.
4. How do you ensure your practice is inclusive and safe?
This could include their use of language, policies, and overall approach to client care.
5. Are you comfortable discussing topics like coming out, identity exploration, or family dynamics?
These are common areas of concern, and a therapist should feel confident supporting you through them.
6. How do you handle situations where a client has experienced discrimination or stigma?
This question helps you understand how they support clients through complex emotional experiences tied to identity.